[Because, while he doesn't understand her, he understands her enough to know that it would hurt her terribly, worse than it did him, to be forced into someone else's happiness and then left to herself again.]
I do not wish you to suffer more than you have, more than you will invite.
[Because they both need ownership of their pain, in different ways.]
[Private]
I do not wish you to suffer more than you have, more than you will invite.
[Because they both need ownership of their pain, in different ways.]
It matters because it matters.